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"It's not that you can't do it alone, it's that you shouldn't have to.

We are all searching for more love, connection, fulfillment, and meaning in our lives.

The journey begins within, because what you are really searching for is yourself. We are not broken, we have been wounded. Healing and understanding is what we need" 

- Marlena Singh

Thank You So Much for taking
the time to read My Story!


 My name is Marlena and I am the creator of Wildern Lights, an Artist, and a Mother! 

I believe you by no accident have stumbled upon my page. You are here for a reason! 

My heart, my deep sense of curiosity, and exploration of what it means to be truly human has brought me to this very moment! I am so excited to share with you what I have learned, hoping it could inspire and elevate you.

May you find more meaning, purpose, love, and JOY!  




My Heart

Ever since I was a kid, I have had a really big heart for people. I’ve always been a highly sensitive and curious person, deeply experiencing the world around me with a love for music, art, science, mystery, and a passion for understanding and learning more about what it means to be truly human. I have had, and still have a lot of questions about love and life.  My personal mission has been to find the answers which sit well with my soul and my personal journey. I love to share my findings with others, in hopes that it could assist them along their journey as well. My goal is never to simply give the answers or to even assume that there is only one answer. My goal is to help you find the answers within yourself, and if my story and what I’ve learned along the way can inspire you, and help you navigate the way back to yourself, then that is what I am here for.  Wildern Lights is all about self exploration, and being navigating lights for one another.  One mission is to bring back authentic connections with one another, sisters and brothers who will stand beside you along this journey letting you know that “YOU ARE NOT ALONE!”


My Mission

Transforming Lives Through  

Authentic Connections

Self-Discovery Education

Journaling Prompts

My Story

You’ve heard the saying “That which doesn’t kill you makes you stronger?” Yeah, that saying hasn’t always made much sense to me, as I felt the more trauma, hardships, and emotional wounds I endured the more defeated I felt. My experiences in life impacted my will to live. I was a wandering soul with a victim mentality. I was allowing life to just happen to me, being in a constant state of responding to my environment instead of taking control of my life.

Even with a victim mindset, I was still able to pull myself out of those dark places just barely, until one day

 I realized that I had to become the best version of myself not only because my daughter deserved it, but I too deserved it. I needed a to live a life worth living. My faith in God became my grounding, but more conscience healing work needed to be done. I began to ask myself very simple but hard questions…


 “Who am I? What do I need in this moment? What parts of myself have been wounded and in need of healing? What lies did the world tell me about myself that I unknowingly agreed too?” 


Then came the questions that were a little more complicated…

 “I know I am worthy of love and having a life that feels fulfilling and meaningful, but then why do I keep attracting people and events into my life that confirm that I am not ENOUGH?”

 That's when my journey of healing and self-discovery began, and I will do so for the rest of my life as growth is a life long journey and is continuously unfolding. 

That's when the real work began! That's where the healing journey became more intentional.

This wasn't a "time heals all,' these were actual measurable steps. A process I would love to share with others who are READY to move. 

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